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Grandmom

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Grandmom

Postby SiLK on Sat Feb 09, 2008 5:26 am

I couldn't get myself to type the full subject.
You know I've had a hard year taking care of grandmom.
Recently she started being unable to move around, so she's now been to the hospital and is in a nursing home now with a diagnosis of colon cancer.
which obviously is very bad news.

I'm still in shock, but please do me a big favor and do your best to follow the rules.
The less work that I have to do, the better.
Obviously, I'm in a bad way emotionally, and will be for the forseeable future.

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Postby NiGHTSRealaJackleFan on Sat Feb 09, 2008 1:04 pm

I feel so sorry, the best thing to do is hope for the best, care for her, and pray to god for her.
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Postby Owl on Sat Feb 09, 2008 1:57 pm

That's very bad... I hope she can get better...
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Postby SiLK on Sat Feb 09, 2008 3:53 pm

she won't be getting better, unfortunately. this is a case of keeping her comfortable.
Thanks for your concern
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Postby NiGHTSRealaJackleFan on Sat Feb 09, 2008 6:15 pm

Welcome... We're really sorry SiLK :( if you need to hold off on the Reala Show and stuff for this, then it's okay, it's totally understandable, what really matters is your grandmothers health and comfort, like you said
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Postby jackle o lanturn on Sat Feb 09, 2008 9:06 pm

my grandma might have cancer too. the dr.s cant figure out if its a infection or cancer(dont see how because there is BIG difference) they have missed diganosed her for 2 years...oh sorry if thats a bit off topic, i hope she does well silk :) you can hold off the reala show if you want to for a awhile.
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Postby infractus on Sat Feb 09, 2008 9:33 pm

Ouch.. that's a crummy diagnosis to get. I'm so sorry to hear that...

At least the facility that she is staying at will do their best to keep her comfortable and do what they can to help out. Still, it's a fairly powerless feeling..

If you need anything at all, let me know.
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Postby SiLK on Thu Mar 06, 2008 3:33 pm

Grandmom died last night at 10:30.
I'll probably be gone today.
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Postby Owl on Thu Mar 06, 2008 4:55 pm

That's very bad :(
I hope you can overcome it, and remember we're here to help you.
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Postby darkjester on Thu Mar 06, 2008 9:42 pm

Like owl said silk... We're all here for you.
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Postby ace on Thu Mar 06, 2008 11:37 pm

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7bgaIYcuUOA
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Postby allrandomthings on Thu Mar 06, 2008 11:59 pm

I Understand How You Feel........ I Am So Sorry For Your Lose........
Take Things At Your Own Pace......... Just Remember She's Not In Pain Anymore.........
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Postby ace on Fri Mar 07, 2008 12:03 am

we all know the pain, and we all cope in our own way...find someway to cheer yourself up and dont let yourself get down and stay there.
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Postby NiGHTSRealaJackleFan on Sat Mar 08, 2008 1:12 am

Like allrandomthings said, she's not in pain anymore..... think that now your grandmother is in a better place, a place that's in eternal peace, no wars, no illness, nothing bad, and now she can rest easy, becuase she had a good, long life..... I'm sure even the users who haven't given you support feel terrible, too.
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Postby Ideya Fairy on Sat Mar 08, 2008 7:10 pm

*puts hands in face* I'm so late on this...

Molly, I'm so sorry... I very much hope she's better now...in a better place. I hope you and your family can cope with her loss.

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